| A bit extreme but also very accurate |
[Dec. 22nd, 2009|01:06 pm] |
Pookas's Existing Situation Feeling dissatisfied in his current situation and has a strong desire to escape or find an immediate solution. Pookas's Stress Sources "Feels as if he is in an impossible situation, he has lost the trust and respect of others and feels he is being treated unfairly and with no consideration whatsoever. He feels unappreciated which is bruising his self-esteem, but feels helpless to do anything about it. Feels misunderstood and alone, as if no one is willing to help him with the problems he faces. He needs constant attention and encouragement, but he is getting neither of those things and it is bringing him down. He needs to escape the situation, but feels helpless to do anything or make a decision toward a solution." Pookas's Restrained Characteristics Current events leave him feeling forced into compromise in order to avoid being cut off from affection or future cooperation. "Feels he is not receiving his fair share and is unable to rely on anyone for support or sympathy. He keeps his emotions bottled up, leaving him quick to take offense to small things. He tries to make the best of his situation." "Seeking to broaden his horizons and believes his hopes and dreams are realistic. Worries he may not be able to do the things he wants and needs to escape to a peaceful, quiet environment in order to restore his confidence." Applies tough standards to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in his sex life. Applies tough standards to his potential partner and demands an unrealistic perfection in his sex life. Pookas's Desired Objective "Wishes to live in a calm, peaceful, relaxing environment, where everyone gets along and there is a strong sense of belonging." Pookas's Actual Problem "Tension and stress is brought on by trying to cope with conditions which are out of his control, using up all his strength and leaving him feeling inadequate. He wishes to escape into a more peaceful and problem-free environment, in which he will no longer have to assert himself or deal with so much pressure." Pookas's Actual Problem #2 "Tends to be too trusting, so he must protect himself from this or he runs the risk of being misunderstood or used by others. Searching for a relationship which provides a safe and understanding environment, one where he knows exactly where he stands with his partner at all times." |
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